child always seems to do nothing, repeatedly sighed Used to do the research on children and mental health diagnosis, Shanghai outpatient counseling center director Du Yasong adolescent behavior is also often taught to think this problem in the food and clothing has long been a worry-free today, why the children do not feel happy, feel less Happy? He considered it as the parents of the child's education.

Children to the parents to add burdens bear

School for the children in the education sector has been to reduce the burden at the same time, many children still have depression, depressive tendencies, Dr. Du believes that many of the inner pressure is a direct result of the child, and the source of this pressure often comes from parents. Therefore, in order to help children recover psychologically happy, the child should burdens, parents should increase the negative.

Child burdens MBT Baridi, the key is to reduce the psychological burden; parents plus negative, the key is to strengthen the importance of child mental health. Parents of the child's moral character and mental qualities, skills and other concerns the ability to

Front of the children not to mention ill spouse

In reality, more and more children living in single-parent families and families with problems, including many children resulting loss of love, abandonment, feeling of insecurity, it is easy to suffer from psychological depression.

Experts remind the rift between husband and wife can not affect the parental love. Many couples say that in front of children fighting over who gets ill of each other, and even let the children hate each other, which would hurt the child's mind, because of the children, no matter what, one is the biological father, a natural mother, the child does not willing to lose any. So Air Jordan 1, if marital breakdown, forced to have to choose a divorce, parents should consider their own selfish gains and losses, but should adopt a restrained, rational, dispassionate attitude to tell the child, even if the parents are not coming together Tory Burch Boots, both parents still care about him, love him. Even a stepfather or stepmother arise in the future, parents will still love him, let the children come to accept this fact, the completion of the psychological leap. If handled well, single-parent families than for children can only be considered a special experience, the negative psychological impact will not be much.

Do not judge a child

puppy love

Puppy love behavior is no psychologist, but also by psychologists deny the parents of the puppy love of the expansion, no reason to love as pure friendship will hurt children. These parents to puppy love as a scourge, wearing tinted glasses for children severely interfere with the proper contacts, harm a child in front of peers, self-esteem, resulting in children weariness, weary, depression tendencies.

Children of similar age is a great need for children to go among the exchanges, but by adolescence, the child had a curiosity of nature, which not only requires parents to provide appropriate sex education, also requires parents to correctly distinguish between love and friendship. The difference is that love is with exclusive, friendship is not exclusive. That the exclusion of other things, two people together, does not allow third party participation, which with exclusive, which is called love; two people together contacts, want others involved mont blanc Fountain Pen, which is called friendship. So, whether it is between the child and the male contacts Timberland Women's 6 Inch Boots, or contacts and woman, they do not with the exclusive, that is called the good feelings of health, parents should support.

How do the children happy

Education

Dr. Du pointed out that kids and parents in their early formation of character has a lot of education. Want their children happy life, parents must be happy childhood education.

(1) Let your child choose to have children some freedom to choose, is to develop character, he formed an important factor in happiness. Of course, parents must call the shots in most things, but some things your child to make decisions anyway.

(2) get along with people are happy with the harmonious relationship between people is an important condition. Parents can try to arrange the children often play with other children.

(3) Do not give children too many spoiled children they will mistakenly think that the pursuit of material that is joy.

(4) develop a broad interest in the lives of happy people had a very balanced, so they can be many ways to be happy.

(5) parents teach their children to be unyielding to any difficulties that will have a turn for the better, if through the efforts failed to reverse the situation UGG Classic Tall 5815, parents should help children find ways to comfort themselves. Teach children to do activities calm their mood.

(6) the establishment of happiness at home to help children find permanent happiness is one of the best ways to live their happy parents, and children to explain why they feel happy.

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